I’m just wondering, no particular reason.
Did you find a partner using it? How long did you use it? What did you think about it? How many matches did you get? What problems did you see? Do you think its a good way to meet other people? What did you use it for / what was your intention?
Just in general, what was the experience like?
Yea, many definitely just swipe and a lot don’t even look at the profile after the match. Sometimes I got stupid answers like “I don’t read profiles, I’ll just ask you directly”. Which is OK if you want to get a conversation going, but really stupid when it comes to the basics.
“Do you like weed, I smoke weed a lot.” “…it says on my profile that I hate any kind of smoke, weed or tobacco, and that I’d never date someone who smokes. You could have saved us both the 3 days of writing if you’d read my profile and not swiped on me…”
I agree your example sounds pretty stupid, like they didn’t even bother to read. But I just wanted to say that I’m not very good at describing myself and would rather get to know people and let people know me by talking to me. So maybe it’s just not that easy for everyone to describe and look up descriptions.
That’s OK when it comes to to personality but I think there are certain non-negotiable things that can be checked via the profile.
Wants Kids yes/no Wants Marriage yes/no OK with smoking or not
These are things that need to be checked early on either way or else the relationship won’t work out.