I try to just use gender neutral language in general because it’s more equitable.
I’m also not attracted to men. At all. The opposite in fact. And very secure in that. Ive also learned that I present in such a way that nobody, gay or straight, has any fucking idea what my sexual orientation is.
I also don’t identify as anything, because it’s nobody’s fucking business who I choose to fuck unless we’re fucking.
Long story short I’ve had conversations with more than one gay man where you can practically see their head exploding trying to figure out what the fuck is talking to them.
I’d be lying if I said I didn’t find it hillarious.
I try to just use gender neutral language in general because it’s more equitable.
I’m also not attracted to men. At all. The opposite in fact. And very secure in that. Ive also learned that I present in such a way that nobody, gay or straight, has any fucking idea what my sexual orientation is.
I also don’t identify as anything, because it’s nobody’s fucking business who I choose to fuck unless we’re fucking.
Long story short I’ve had conversations with more than one gay man where you can practically see their head exploding trying to figure out what the fuck is talking to them.
I’d be lying if I said I didn’t find it hillarious.
Sexual orientation: Probably.
Gender: No.
Sounds like its very hard to talk to you.
Imagine not knowing someone’s gender. Untalkable.
I was referring to the high level of hostility they show strangers by default.
they don’t, though? If you think that’s hostile it kinda seems like you are the one who would be difficult to talk to.
I’m okay if you don’t want to talk to me. Not everyone will.