• Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 day ago

    I have literally heard a Jeep owner express such an attitude. Not specifically that the other family would die and theirs would not, but that theirs would be minimally damaged and the other would be crushed.

    This was on a date. I obviously did not go on a second date with her. This was a big ass red flag.

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      4 hours ago

      Which is wild because it’s a Jeep.

      How is it going to make it all the way to the scene of the accident?

      I’ve never seen a more unreliable POS in my life.

    • Katana314@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      It’s a surprise to hear how many truck/SUV owners are women. The theory delivered has been that women generally feel unsafe in the open due to misogynistic behavior as well as rare cases of road rage, and so a big tough car acts as a “safety blanket” - so even in traffic when surrounded, they can feel control and ownership of their space.

      That’s a stretched theory but it could make sense.

      • SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca
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        17 minutes ago

        People are sold on the idea that bigger vehicles are safer. Complete lie:

        1. They take longer distances to stop

        2. They do not have to meet safety standards of cars due to a regualtory loophole.

        3. They flip much easier because of the high centre of mass, and this is worse with stuff in the truck. It gets much worse with the lifting trend. So lifters then space out the wheels, which is not what the suspension was designed for and suspension arms and hubs crack.

        4. Some have 16 ft front blind spots, people are running over their own children in driveways.

        5. They are worse in snow and ice, because chunky man tires are not winter rated and heavier vehicles slide off roads easier.

      • Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        9 hours ago

        A colleague of mine who was a little woman, decades ago and even before the SUV craze, drove a car like that (which was stupidly large for her size) because it made her feel safe.

        Years later I found out such cars were more likely to roll-over than other cars.

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        21 hours ago

        This honestly sounds likely. My step-mother, in the 80s, said something like this when she got an SUV (before the term had even kicked in). She felt safer and more confident being higher than the rest of the traffic. I “get it”, but it’s a race to the bottom (or top?). Maybe if they get tall enough, some of us can get ultra efficient and low profile wedge shaped cars and just dodge underneath these gigantic abominations.

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        19 hours ago

        I don’t think it’s a gender thing at all, people just like the higher seating position and the upper hand in the case of a collision. I’m personally a small hatch guy, but every time I’ve asked somebody why they want a bigger car despite not carrying anything those are the two reasons I got back, gender regardless.

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      1 day ago

      I also stopped dating someone immediately after their attitude on SUVs came out. Dealbreaker