IMO, best thing you can do for people is not to get too involved in the initial crush of attention when everyone is around. Visit or call 3 weeks, 6 weeks, a year, 3 years later. Those are the times that get hard. So far, the first decade anniversary is particularly challenging. It is a rare person that still cares and steps out of the ether at later times.
And the worst when they are missing.
IMO, best thing you can do for people is not to get too involved in the initial crush of attention when everyone is around. Visit or call 3 weeks, 6 weeks, a year, 3 years later. Those are the times that get hard. So far, the first decade anniversary is particularly challenging. It is a rare person that still cares and steps out of the ether at later times.