tl;dr: r/AmITheAsshole?

So I’m a Reddit refugee late by two years. Before all, I’m from somewhere you’ll need VPNs to access the real Internet, and people aren’t familiar with how Reddit works.

I got permabanned in an anime subreddit for calling out someone straightly said “the manga is f***ing disgusting” bc fanservices. My language is at worse “I hope you’re satisfied rubbing your uncivilizedness into [manga author]'s face” and my ban reason was “mean language & hate”.

Well it was just a ban in one singular sub and smaller subs for same anime exists. But my deadass didn’t think through and rage-deleted my 3y-old Reddit account, planning to “start again” before learning how Reddit treats newcomers, alt accounts and VPN users the hard way.

Now I have created some alts and all got either banned or shadowbanned for "ban evasion ", or may had smth to do with me using VPNs. Ofc I had to use an alt account now since I can’t retreat to my old one. I can’t even browse Reddit without logging in bc “blocked by network security”.

I admit it’s my fault rage-deleting my account recklessly; I admit it’s not Reddit’s fault they had to prevent spam and ban-evasion; but do I really deserved this?

Having turned my sub-wide ban into a Reddit-wide ban and learnt my lesson, I’m now here in Lemmy.

  • skedye@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
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    3 days ago

    Now that I think of it, you’re right about how concluding someone “rubbed their words into author’s face” isn’t quite true nor constructive.

    I had been following reddiquette etiquette for three years straight before the incident, and could promise to do better in Lenny. Thanks for your warm welcome.

    • Michael@slrpnk.netEnglish
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      3 days ago

      I’m sorry that it all happened that way. I believe in most spaces here, your comment would’ve just been removed if it was seen as uncivil or overly hostile - if any action was taken at all.

      If you hit the vertical … on comments or look at the footer, you will notice that moderation logs are public here on the fediverse. This brings a greater level of accountability to moderators and users alike.

      Truly, I hope you have a good time here and I look forward to seeing you around!