In Minnesota, leaders of an Old Apostolic Lutheran Church community enabled a child abuser by telling his victims that once the sins were “washed away in the blood of reconciliation,” they could never speak of them again.
  • Protecting an Abuser: Leaders of a Minnesota church didn’t report a parishioner to police though they knew he’d sexually abused girls for years and had been told reporting it was their duty.
  • Forgive and Forget: Church leaders held meetings where children were told to forgive the man who sexually abused them and forget the abuse. If they spoke of it, the sin would be theirs.
  • Missed Opportunities: Prosecutors had at least one opportunity to intervene but hoped educating church leaders about their duties would encourage them to cooperate with authorities.
  • SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    11 hours ago

    If I learn a “friend” abused a kid… They’re not my friend anymore, and likely never will be again

    A friend isn’t a sacred thing, if someone turns out to be a piece of shit, I drop them like a stone. They’re dead to me. I will never excuse someone’s abhorrent behaviour like that. To still stay friends with them and maybe even excuse or hide what they did… is unthinkable to me