Nope. Should she feel bad if the roles were reversed? A couple is two people working together to make a better life for each other than either could do alone. Don’t be a leech, do your best to make your spouse/SO happy, and expect to do things fairly. If one of you is more of the bread winner, then it’s not only fine but fair that the one making more pays for more things. Be happy they want to pay and more importantly pay for you. Make it up to them in less monetary ways.
Nope. Should she feel bad if the roles were reversed? A couple is two people working together to make a better life for each other than either could do alone. Don’t be a leech, do your best to make your spouse/SO happy, and expect to do things fairly. If one of you is more of the bread winner, then it’s not only fine but fair that the one making more pays for more things. Be happy they want to pay and more importantly pay for you. Make it up to them in less monetary ways.