• chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Anyone else find that praying hands emoji very condescending when used like that? I would destroy the backend DB if they tried to send me that!

    • setVeryLoud(true);@lemmy.ca
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      14 hours ago

      I think it’s Indian English. Wild guess from the sentence structure, vocabulary used and the selected colour of the hands emoji.

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        1 day ago

        What’s wrong with that? It’s a common gesture for thanks in many places irl… that’s the first thing i think when I see that emoji, and I’m from a western culture…

          • merc@sh.itjust.works
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            20 hours ago

            You can also type “thanks” or “please”. Both of those show the hands together emoji.

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              18 hours ago

              they do now because people are using it incorrectly.

              not once in my life have I groveled a “thank you” and I don’t intend to start via text.

              • Humanius@lemmy.world
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                8 hours ago

                Emoji aren’t strictly prescriptive with their meaning. They are generic symbols that can have many meanings in different contexts and cultures.

                The name of an emoji is more a suggestion than anything else.

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                  11 hours ago

                  considering I’m not in south asia, and don’t interact with anyone from south asia it’s not something that I have come across, like ever.

                  use it all you want though, I’ll just always remember the douche bag that used it 500 times a day and associate anyone that uses it like them to the douche bag.

                  thanks 🤲

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                    5 hours ago

                    Or you know… they practice yoga…

                    Also when i think “prayer hands”. I think of this one 🙏 not this 🤲. That one doesnt appear when you search “thanks”. And i think it would be a little strange to use. Perhaps if the tone is showing ‘humility’?