As someone whos mental health and attachment style can’t cope with Poly, RA or ENM, it’s starting to feel more and more hopeless when trying to date, 90% of the queer people I know are one of those. My ex made me feel broken and wrong for wanting a mono relationship and tried to convince me to be ENM because apparently mono is rooted in colonialism.
I’m just like, am I not allowed to like what I like?
Its fucked and makes me feel like I’ll be alone forever.
As someone whos mental health and attachment style can’t cope with Poly, RA or ENM, it’s starting to feel more and more hopeless when trying to date, 90% of the queer people I know are one of those. My ex made me feel broken and wrong for wanting a mono relationship and tried to convince me to be ENM because apparently mono is rooted in colonialism.
I’m just like, am I not allowed to like what I like?
Its fucked and makes me feel like I’ll be alone forever.