

I usually get people asking for my number or socials when they’re interested, asking out tends to happen over electronic communication after that.
My process is basically
- Casual conversation- if you don’t hit it off naturally here, let it go.
- Reciprocal flirting
- Exchange contact info
- Develop friendship
- Ask out directly
- ???
- Go back to 1
I also get told I’m very attractive in various verbage near daily so 🤷♀️
Idk, just be respectful and don’t be pushy if they’re trying to let you down (and pay attention for if they’re trying to do it gently)
I don’t work in tech but literally just put stickers and opensuse on a refurbished Thinkpad I bought a few days ago 🫡