like the brain is literally encased in the body so how can it be separate? like if you go around licking lamp posts you’re going to pick up some germ that’s gonna make you feel like crap and you get insomnia or fever and your brain will definitely be impacted. and so you’ll have short temper and that’ll get you into trouble.
no but that’s my point, like… i THOUGHT people weren’t actually going around thinking that the mind is separate from the body like the brain isn’t totally connected to everything. Like people were just using the phrase cuz it makes sense. but i realized the “Pull Yourself Up from The Bootstraps” people really actually think that it is just mind over matter. Or even bring up free will and suddenly everyone’s like “noooo my mind is unaffected by the conditions of the body” and so on.
This might have come up today in a few pages of the novel I’m reading. The main character in the book has a lot of intrusive thoughts and there is a part where they read someone’s blog that has similar thoughts. Anyway, I still don’t know your situation, but I thought I’d put the name of the book here incase its helpful to someone:
“Turtles all the way down” by John Green
Its also a movie by the same name
Okay, I think I understand now.
That’s understandable in that situation but as someone that wasn’t in that situation I was just really slow to understand what you meant.
And it’s not like the mind doesn’t have power over the body (at the very least good / bad spirits make pain easier / harder to deal with) but yeah… some of the sayings people throw out are just shitty. And it does get more insidious. I’m only guessing at your situation but know of people with cancer where people would say things like “I don’t think they have the mental strength to survive this”.
It sounds like a difficult situation to be in. Are you still in it, or have you at least found a way to avoid the frustration and confusion of their comments?