Hi, so I am (F). My boyfriend is obviously (M). So, a few days ago, we exchanged messages, which looked like this:
Hey, So, I don’t mean to hurt your feelings, but can you not text, call, or hang out much anymore (like only hang out at restaurants)? I just don’t like it. Again, I am real sorry to hurt you, I just don’t really like communicating via telephone or hanging out. I am very introverted. Thanks <3
He responded with: “Don’t worry! You’re not hurting my feelings!! I will definitely talk less on the phone if that’s what you want and talk more in-person.”
I said “That’s perfect <3 OK”
And all he sent yesterday was “Hi!” and not much else and I told him I couldn’t talk so he stopped messaging altogether except for “hi, have a great day” or even just “Hi”.
I would interpret that as a
“Leave me alone I’m not interested”
Maybe it’s just how I view things, but you realize every relationship ends in either break up or marriage? Like I’m engaged and 95% of my time with my partner is just casual hanging out. I would be distraught if I could only see them when were on a date.
You need to have a better conversation with him.