I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.
What is considered incel? I did not have sex until my late twenties and I would have been totally fine having it earlier but I did not consider it awful that I had not. Honestly I was not looking for relationships much per se in high school but if I hit it off with someone would start dating.
while incel is short of “involuntary celibate”, is someone who is also is a very bigoted person (and mains on misogyny).
if you are a decent person who hasn’t had sex, you do not qualify as an incel (even if you yearn for it a lot, being cruel is key to be an incel)