“I’m not kink shaming…”

“Don’t yuck someone else’s yum…”

“Whatever floats your boat…”

Shut up. I don’t care.

Your kink is gross and I don’t have to be okay with it just because you’re proud about it. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Some kinks are shameful. Hell, many kinks are shameful. And not just the obvious ones like pedophilia or bestiality or snuff.

I had more specifics drawn up but I figured it’s probably safest to keep it kind of vague.

But it is my opinion that “don’t kink shame!” should never have become the default.

That’s probably the crux of the unpopular opinion here so that’ll do.

Signed,

A sex repulsed and very annoyed asexual.

  • theneverfox@pawb.social
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    3 days ago

    I think the real problem is a lack of social hygiene.

    Kinks aren’t shameful. Revealing your kinks in public is, no matter how vanilla. Certain hobbies and habits should come with a little shame, not because they’re bad, but because they should be private secrets that don’t follow you to work or the grocery store

    • EtnaAtsume@lemmy.worldOP
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      3 days ago

      This!!! Exactly this is precisely what I really wanted to say now that I have a bit of a cooler head about it.

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        3 days ago

        Right but that’s also not kink shaming to tell someone to keep it to themselves