“I’m not kink shaming…”
“Don’t yuck someone else’s yum…”
“Whatever floats your boat…”
Shut up. I don’t care.
Your kink is gross and I don’t have to be okay with it just because you’re proud about it. You should be ashamed of yourself.
Some kinks are shameful. Hell, many kinks are shameful. And not just the obvious ones like pedophilia or bestiality or snuff.
I had more specifics drawn up but I figured it’s probably safest to keep it kind of vague.
But it is my opinion that “don’t kink shame!” should never have become the default.
That’s probably the crux of the unpopular opinion here so that’ll do.
Signed,
A sex repulsed and very annoyed asexual.
okay well, paraphilias involving harm to others or non-consent aren’t fetishes. acted role play in a fantasy setting would be, because there is communication and boundaries. fetishes have emotional consistency whereas a paraphilia often feels overwhelmingly strong and like a compulsion. it is disordered and behavioral.
why should adults feel ashamed for accepting a fetish they have no control over having? what kind of purpose would shame serve upon doing so, preventing sexual fulfillment and gratification? as sexual people that would not be possible.