• boonhet@sopuli.xyz
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    So she’s knowledgeable and passionate about something and can hold a conversation instead of making the other person do all the work?

    And he ghosted her???

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      Was it a conversation or a knowledge dump without a lot of interaction?

      I like the other person to show a little bit of interest in me, but that’s just me. I could be wrong.

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        Hey if the dude never contributed to the conversation, that’s on him. You gotta ask the nerd questions so you can get MORE information

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          sometimes you just want to enjoy the film, without all the needless marvel backstory to “enhance” it

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            As long as it’s about something cool, and not about what people I don’t know are doing, I’m good. I dgaf what some random person does, or anything about their life. Give me weird nature facts.

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      Exactly my thoughts. Not just knowing a lot about something but also being willing to talk about it. So many people with actual interesting shit to say keep it to themselves until several interactions in. Like Yeats said
      “The best lack all conviction, while the worst
      Are full of passionate intensity.”

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        10 hours ago

        She. Her name is Casey Zinkiezich. Shes the OP, she goes by She/Her as indicated by her social media.