As a cishet male, I’m actually curious about this, myself! I was super emotional as a kid, but in my mid to late teens I virtually lost the ability to cry. Instead, my “sad” or “stressed” emotions would come out as frustration or anger.
Now, my son is in his teens and he’s going through the same thing, where he’s realizing he can’t cry like he used to.
Definitely interested to know if this pretty much boils down to testosterone.
I clearly remember the last time I had a full on breakdown emotional cry. It was when I was 17, and it suddenly became apparent to me that I never actually had an imaginary friend. I just pretended I did because I felt like that would make me special.
Needless to say, I was high off my ass when I came to that realization, but it was still devastating.
In all of the years since then, I may have, like, had a tear or two, or like a tiny little sob, but actually getting to that point where I could break down and cry and pour out all of those emotions that I’m sitting on, it feels like I have about the same chances as winning the lottery.
Let us know if you give AAs and E a shot to see how it affects you. Honestly, would be interesting to see how cis people react to a double-blinded trial like that, both directions. Obvious problem with that being cis people not want the effects. E at least is pretty slow with long-term physical changes, but T seems to have some pretty fast acting affects from my understanding.
As a fisher male I never cry when angry or sad, but I cry a lot on tender films where people either recognise sacrifice or sacrifice themselves. You know, the tearjerkers. So, no problem with tears, they just don’t come out with anger or sadness.
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As a cishet male, I’m actually curious about this, myself! I was super emotional as a kid, but in my mid to late teens I virtually lost the ability to cry. Instead, my “sad” or “stressed” emotions would come out as frustration or anger. Now, my son is in his teens and he’s going through the same thing, where he’s realizing he can’t cry like he used to. Definitely interested to know if this pretty much boils down to testosterone.
It’s a factor, but not the whole story. Social norms also influence things a whole lot.
I went through the same thing and it was a recurring source of dysphoria for me until I started HRT. Crying rocks!
I clearly remember the last time I had a full on breakdown emotional cry. It was when I was 17, and it suddenly became apparent to me that I never actually had an imaginary friend. I just pretended I did because I felt like that would make me special.
Needless to say, I was high off my ass when I came to that realization, but it was still devastating.
In all of the years since then, I may have, like, had a tear or two, or like a tiny little sob, but actually getting to that point where I could break down and cry and pour out all of those emotions that I’m sitting on, it feels like I have about the same chances as winning the lottery.
Let us know if you give AAs and E a shot to see how it affects you. Honestly, would be interesting to see how cis people react to a double-blinded trial like that, both directions. Obvious problem with that being cis people not want the effects. E at least is pretty slow with long-term physical changes, but T seems to have some pretty fast acting affects from my understanding.
As a fisher male I never cry when angry or sad, but I cry a lot on tender films where people either recognise sacrifice or sacrifice themselves. You know, the tearjerkers. So, no problem with tears, they just don’t come out with anger or sadness.