so, we are holding hands but she doesn’t wanna kiss or anything because she wants to wait a while so we take it slow because i started dating her a week ago. however, i am very attached and expressive with my love and she is… less?? how can we make things work and how do i make it so i change and take things slower??
Right now, i’m too bummed out and depressed to want to be romantic or attached, so that’s “good” i guess
I wish I could help but all of my gfs have wanted to play tonsil hockey (minimum) from the first date. I’m not sure I would have the strength of mind to take things slow. I’m 100% sure I would go insane.
i feel like people ive dated might be on the aroace spectrum or demiromantic or something but idk
That’s rough. Although from my point of view (hypersexual) pretty much everyone is. It’s extremely frustrating.