Hi, so I could use some help. I really like my girlfriend and I want to show my love and make her feel special, but I don’t know how to do it without going into “obsessive” territory. I’ve loved her for two years and every day with her is great, but I don’t know what to do since I feel more obsessed every day.
One trick that always works - every time (or every other time) you go to the grocery store, get her flowers or a balloon. It doesn’t have to be fresh flowers - discount flowers work too.
It lets her know that you thought of her and that you want your shared space to look nice.
But, as others say - listen to her. If she hates flowers, get something else.
And listen, be cheap. It’s fine. Don’t buy the best flowers. They die after a while and beauty fades. So don’t sweat about getting expensive roses.
Added bonus - come valentines, you can skip flowers because they’re overpriced and she’s so used to them that she wants something else 🙂