Frenchfryenjoyer (she/her)@lemmings.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · 6 days agoWhat age gap is too big of an age gap if someone's in their early 30's?message-squaremessage-square70fedilinkarrow-up162arrow-down12file-text
arrow-up160arrow-down1message-squareWhat age gap is too big of an age gap if someone's in their early 30's?Frenchfryenjoyer (she/her)@lemmings.world to No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world · 6 days agomessage-square70fedilinkfile-text
Obviously I’m talking about two adults, I’m just wondering when it goes from okay to “a bit iffy”, either older or younger
minus-squaremsage@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 days agoI’ve known a guy, dated an 18yo while being ~33-35… We sat down and talked about the relationship. Me: dude, it’s fine if you tell me it’s all about sex, just please tell me what do you really get out of that relationship? Dude: no you don’t get it, she’s so mature for her age, we have common things, we talk a lot Me: what do you talk about? do you talk about her homework? Dude: noo, we talk about life and such Couple weeks later dude is single. At least then he admitted it was just about the sex. The gap was wider than 22 and 30, but still, it’s too much.
minus-squareNoodle07@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 days ago18 is definetly too low, they still look like children to me I agree, but 22-23? If they work they arent behind me in their life. But yeah the gap is wide.
minus-squaremsage@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 day agoThey are behind you in the brain development if nothing else. Also their back doesn’t hurt yet :D
minus-squareNoodle07@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 day agoYeah, ya ain’t fully adult until like 25 imho
I’ve known a guy, dated an 18yo while being ~33-35…
We sat down and talked about the relationship.
Me: dude, it’s fine if you tell me it’s all about sex, just please tell me what do you really get out of that relationship?
Dude: no you don’t get it, she’s so mature for her age, we have common things, we talk a lot
Me: what do you talk about? do you talk about her homework?
Dude: noo, we talk about life and such
Couple weeks later dude is single. At least then he admitted it was just about the sex.
The gap was wider than 22 and 30, but still, it’s too much.
18 is definetly too low, they still look like children to me I agree, but 22-23? If they work they arent behind me in their life. But yeah the gap is wide.
They are behind you in the brain development if nothing else.
Also their back doesn’t hurt yet :D
Yeah, ya ain’t fully adult until like 25 imho