• DarkFuture@lemmy.world
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    21 hours ago

    My dad started falling down the hole with Rush Limbaugh in the late 90s. Downward spiral into right wing shithole media ever since. Now he’s old, single for decades, been hospitalized for over a month, and is indicating he’s sad that I don’t talk to him often anymore and that he’s lonely.

    It’s a long game, but sometimes you have to distance yourself from someone behaving awfully before they can realize the error of their ways. It can literally take decades.

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      20 hours ago

      Yeah, mine got on the Rush pipeline back in the day too. My mom is still with him but apparently he has either gotten way worse since the election or she has finally just gotten tired of hearing it. Me and him have a similar relationship to you and yours with the whole ‘why don’t we speak more’, but won’t listen to me when I explain why.

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        19 hours ago

        but won’t listen to me when I explain why.

        Yeah, this is the running theme.

        If someone won’t listen to you, the only sane thing to do is stop talking to them.