Asking because I just sat through a family feud within earshot at a local coffee joint. Parents giving advice to son, who looked 30ish, all quite civil, full of the ‘can I speak for a minute’, ‘your minute is up’ and so on, with some ‘when we were your age’ and ‘you must/ will learn’ etc. Mum ended with ‘i don’t have to justify anything to you’.
My dad stopped once I got out of high school, but mum seems to chime in from time to time. I’m well into my middle age.
When should parents stop parenting and just let the kid fail/ thrive on their own? I just feel sometimes the parents are the problem, regardless of good intentions.
Spot on. Great post.
Unfortunately many disagree as they are advocating for and celebrating children as young as 4-5 having autonomy and being able to make life long permanent decisions, with teachers etc being told to withhold info from parents and affirm whatever they want. Governments the world over are trying to take parental rights and control away because it’s much easier to control and mould kids when they’re young. Make them government dependant as early as possible and you have nice easily controlled voters for life.
Uh… Ok.