• What my brain would prefer me to do after ever. single. interaction: "Please fill out this form to rate my behaviour in this encounter.

    1. What clues did I miss?
    2. Did I respond with the appropriate “uh hmm” s while listening?
    3. Did I behave in a weird way?
    4. Did I say something inappropriate?
    5. Did I interrupt you when I already understood what you meant?"

    and other, similar questions LOL