• ricecake@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    I meant more the legal partnerships aspect than the specifics of who it grants it to. Also, in some areas you can get a marriage between multiple people.

    Marriage is the word for the non-business personal binding that you speak of.
    You’re saying they should open the doors to that to everyone in whatever organization they see fit, which I agree with.
    You’re also saying they should use a different word for it, which I don’t. Religion doesn’t own the concept of marriage.
    May as well say that we’re deciding that religion can’t perform marriages anymore. You can have the same party and ceremony, but it’s just a Catholic/Jewish/Hindu/etc union. If you want to get married you need to go down to the courthouse.

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      4 days ago

      Personally I don’t give a shit what it’s called. Calling the legal aspect something else would shut down the resistance from the religious whackjobs that are hung up on the word marriage and the fact that it doesn’t fit whatever their religions definition of it is.

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        4 days ago

        Eh, they don’t get to win. I care what it’s called because that’s the word for it in English. Letting them win means that they’ll just advance to saying that the government shouldn’t be encouraging what they disagree with.
        When people proposed “civil unions” as the alternative to gay marriage it shut up exactly zero of the nut jobs. When gay marriage was legalized they started arguing about how you can’t force them to make cakes.

        Appeasement doesn’t work. Get petty and make the nutters defend everything they’ve got twisted around in their heads. Care about the word if for no other reason than it makes them pissy.