• Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
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    8 days ago

    Short kings, who own who they are and remain confident about it, are absolutely welcome in my bed.

    However, short, whiny men who use their height as an excuse to complain about women? I don’t want to be with someone like that, regardless of their appearance.

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      8 days ago

      I would never want to bed someone so condescending.

      Short men are allowed to have feelings and we are allowed to speak about our disadvantages.

      What’s next, you’re going to go up to a fat woman and tell her she can go fuck herself if she gets upset that people find her unattractive?

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        There’s a difference between “having feelings” and “blaming a group for not dating (you.)” If someone doesn’t want to date you for something you can’t change, that sounds like dodging a bullet. Confidence is hot. Being whiny about being rejected is not.

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          I never blamed anyone?

          All I said was that height was a factor in women’s choice.

          They are allowed to have choices and I am allowed to be upset that I’m considered less desirable because of it.

          And fuck off, a man expresses how he feels and he’s “whiny”? Fuck this shit, you’re a jerk.

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            8 days ago

            I never called you anything, either. Go re-read my posts.

            The only times I used the word you were:

            I used “(you)” to complete one sentence, using parentheses precisely to express that I wasn’t referring specifically to you (if I had been, I would’ve just said “you.”) The sentence after it contains “you,” but it’s a statement of fact no matter who reads it. Where’s the personal insult?

            I spoke about two camps: short kings and whiny complainers. If you chose to see yourself as being one of the “whiny men” instead of as one of the “short kings,” that’s 100% on you.