• Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
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    8 days ago

    There’s a difference between “having feelings” and “blaming a group for not dating (you.)” If someone doesn’t want to date you for something you can’t change, that sounds like dodging a bullet. Confidence is hot. Being whiny about being rejected is not.

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      8 days ago

      I never blamed anyone?

      All I said was that height was a factor in women’s choice.

      They are allowed to have choices and I am allowed to be upset that I’m considered less desirable because of it.

      And fuck off, a man expresses how he feels and he’s “whiny”? Fuck this shit, you’re a jerk.

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        8 days ago

        I never called you anything, either. Go re-read my posts.

        The only times I used the word you were:

        I used “(you)” to complete one sentence, using parentheses precisely to express that I wasn’t referring specifically to you (if I had been, I would’ve just said “you.”) The sentence after it contains “you,” but it’s a statement of fact no matter who reads it. Where’s the personal insult?

        I spoke about two camps: short kings and whiny complainers. If you chose to see yourself as being one of the “whiny men” instead of as one of the “short kings,” that’s 100% on you.