• ATS1312@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    19 hours ago

    fucking what? I’ve commented numerous times on Mamdani??

    My bad, I’ll dig thru your profile for that.

    Bruh. I lived in a deeply conservative area for most of my life. My social circles were deeply conservative, and I feigned being ‘apolitical’ to avoid having to go nuclear at a time when my living position was precarious.

    I feel that, and I can relate. I’m less precarious today.

    Thinking that there’s a commonality of dislike there is falling for the extremely thin mask they put on whenever some liberal gives them pushback. It’s not real. They immediately drop the mask when around people they think are similar to them.

    Oh, that? That’s not what I’m talking about for a motive. But in retrospect, I can see how I read that way.

    We have to distinguish between a spectrum of rightwingers - the ones who know the dogwhistles are such, and those who are so uneducated they bought the frame of “small government” as good in its own right because “everyone agrees”. Like it’s a religion they were raised in.

    “Hating the elites” (whatever that means) isn’t a coherent political idea as a result. Having 3 jobs and being pissed that you’re still broke? That’s a coherent political thought they don’t even have the vocabulary to express.

    Is the “elite-hate” just antisemitism pretending to look vaguely leftish? Potentially. Or has this dudebro been so starved of literacy that he takes the dogwhistle unironically, but won’t connect “billionaire” with that on his own? This is a spectrum.

    I’d rather find and talk to the drive of “why am I still poor when I work this hard?”

    If an upscale clothing store manager steps to me talking about “these kids don’t know how to work,” I’m acknowledging how exhausted he looks. His is not a life of dignity, and I will say this to him. The education system has failed him through his trainees, and he is being asked to pick up the slack. Where are bank tellers going to come from when kids graduate unable to count money? What kind of AI are data scientists going to build when they don’t understand what each statistics distribution describes?

    We are failing to invest in our country, and he will either see how this affects him personally, or he will walk away seething. If he brings up DEI or trans anything, or immigrant crime? I have a one-liner to address it and move back to the real conversation - you work too hard bro, and its because our systems are failing.

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      “Hating the elites” (whatever that means) isn’t a coherent political idea as a result. Having 3 jobs and being pissed that you’re still broke? That’s a coherent political thought they don’t even have the vocabulary to express.

      Alright, but many of them take a perverse pride in poverty, don’t work three jobs, and quite explicitly love the elite. Like, the level of idolization of rich folk who share their dogwhistles that goes on is insane.

      If you’ve never seen a Trump flag with Rambo’s body on it, count yourself lucky. And it’s not a new trend either. Wealth means people are ‘smart’ and ‘hardworking’, unless they start talking all liberal-like. The ‘elites’ they hate are not the people who drain their meagre wealth away from them, they’re the people that make them feel insecure - doctors, lawyers, career politicians who don’t suck them off.

      Is the “elite-hate” just antisemitism pretending to look vaguely leftish? Potentially.

      Not even, though. Elite hate isn’t a smokescreen for something more nefarious - step back, take in the full view of their position, and it is literally just that - hate for elites. The issue is that the ‘elites’ they despise are people who make them feel ‘lesser’ intellectually.

      And the worst part is, many of these people are not stupid, inherently. But they’ve been raised to see incuriosity about their preconceptions as a virtue. They will simultaneously express what a BADASS REBEL they are by meekly submitting to conservative social norms and what a GOOD UPSTANDING LAW-ABIDING CITIZEN they are for meekly submitting to conservative norms. And if you point it out, they see no contradiction. Which, in practice if not principle, to be fair, I suppose there isn’t.

      I flatter myself a bit in saying that I have a bit of an edge in arguments with most people. I used to like to argue, and got very good at it - now I argue out of exhausted obligation and the knowledge that letting points go uncontested in a social circle lets them multiply, which results in very unpleasant social circles. Let me tell you, the insanity of giving gentle pushback and maneuvering a conservative into a position where they state something in reverse of their position (such as from ‘politicians need more power’ to ‘politicians need less power’) while still maintaining their original position is…

      1984 had it fucking right, man. The level of people to engage in doublethink is overwhelming.

      If an upscale clothing store manager steps to me talking about “these kids don’t know how to work,” I’m acknowledging how exhausted he looks.

      I suppose I can’t speak to that. My experience is overwhelmingly with poor, rural, religious conservative America.