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Woman in a wheelchair saying: “THERE IS NO MARRIAGE EQUALITY UNTIL PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES CAN MARRY WITHOUT LOSING BENEFITS”

  • Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net
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    2 days ago

    From the U.S. here, and the image is correct. My fiancé has chronic disabilities, with essentially no chance for recovery.

    I’m employed as her caretaker, and I make about $30k/year doing so. She is on SNAP (food assistance), medicaid (government paid healthcare), and SSI (monthly payments to her bank account).

    If we get married, it’ll mean a massive cost for us, since very little of these benefits would carry over afterwards. I legally cannot be her caretaker if we’re married, and my main job would put us in too high of a tax bracket for the rest of her benefits to go untouched.

    It’s a shockingly bad system.

    • Kongar@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 day ago

      I live in the US and had no idea this is how it worked. I shouldn’t be surprised-this place is a hellhole if you’re poor. Why would being disabled be any different?

      Maybe some awareness is needed here. It might do nothing - but it for sure ain’t changing if people don’t know this goes on.