Update, my bf (21m) i (22m) talked to, and he just said “i dunno 🤷♂️” the whole time i spoke to him about our interests and such. and i told him i didn’t feel heard (he said ok) and “i dunno” every time i said anything he just said “i dunno”. and then i asked if he liked my interests and he didn’t know.
And then he said he seriously didn’t know and that he was sorry to make me feel that way, but that he was conflicted.
and i asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime and do our own thing and he said “idk maybe 🤷♂️”
a year, he knows i’m trans :) maybe we can move on idk
In one of your other posts you said you thought there may be an issue because you are trans. That is why I asked.
My wife and I have been together since 96 with a small break, and married since 2001. We do not like all of the same things. But I do not knock her likes, with a rate exception, and she does the same.
Before I quit Instagram we shared a lot of reels, and I sent her a lot of TikToks. I only sent ones she would personally like or that I found really good. She does the same.
I got to know what she likes over the years.
yayyyy, that’s good!