my bf alex (21m) always expects me (22m) to watch his movies, and his videos. and i do, and i watch all the tiktoks and instagram reels he sends me. but when i send him something, he doesn’t look at it and says “he’ll do it later” but doesn’t.
he also doesn’t like my interests at all and doesn’t want to do things with me, but wants me to do his interests like playing fortnite. i do not like fortnite at all.
Communicate with them about it and establish a mutual understanding that not all interests need to be shared. If it feels inequitable, then tell them so and try to find a compromise. Sometimes it’s good to establish a time/space for both people to enjoy their own hobbies.
thank you!!!