• dandelion@piefed.blahaj.zoneM
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    12 hours ago

    Some men seem to think women dress and do makeup and hair for them alone, and that this is inherently sexual; meanwhile if there were no men I would continue to dress up and do hair and makeup and I think this is because lots of women dress and do makeup for ourselves and for other women, to feel human and have self esteem, and also to establish social status among other women.

    • LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zoneOPM
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      6 hours ago

      Yep! Not to mention how many decent men think they have a right to tell their partner to have long hair, get a Brazilian, wear high heels etc. I’ve met so many who think as it’s just a couple of things so they can expect it cos THEY like it that way