Women each have different desires in significant others. “You don’t know how hard it is being a guy and having to do the asking out!” True, I don’t. I do know being a fat woman who doesn’t wear makeup or flattering clothing I got asked out 3 times in my life. Only one of those guys is ‘traditionally handsome’ and is not my now husband. My husband has cerebral palsy and yet still asked my much younger ass out. Worked for him cause he was willing to try. Maybe it’s because I feel safe with him. Being disabled gives him a viewpoint on other humans where one has to be wary like most women have to be wary.
Women each have different desires in significant others. “You don’t know how hard it is being a guy and having to do the asking out!” True, I don’t. I do know being a fat woman who doesn’t wear makeup or flattering clothing I got asked out 3 times in my life. Only one of those guys is ‘traditionally handsome’ and is not my now husband. My husband has cerebral palsy and yet still asked my much younger ass out. Worked for him cause he was willing to try. Maybe it’s because I feel safe with him. Being disabled gives him a viewpoint on other humans where one has to be wary like most women have to be wary.