Two days ago, I did an AMA about my current life situation, and I really enjoyed it. I find these super fun for some reason, so I’m back with another one! Same request as last time: please, no judgment or unkind replies. Thank you! 🤍

  • iasmina2007@lemmy.worldOP
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    16 hours ago

    I’m very happy, content, and comfortable with my “situation”, but thank you for your concern nonetheless.

    • rabber@lemmy.ca
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      16 hours ago

      I mean this as gently as possible but if you are 18 you don’t even know what happy, content, and comfortable even feels like

      I’m 30 and I still don’t even understand these concepts fully

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        14 hours ago

        I’m 30 and I still don’t even understand these concepts fully

        Your personal experience is not representative of everyone else. Not what they experience. Not how they develop. Not who or what they are, or will be.

        Please stop.

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        16 hours ago

        This is a bit insensitive to say to someone who has experienced firsthand what it feels like to be the opposite of happy, content, and comfortable.

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          16 hours ago

          I went into your post history and saw you ran from home at 16. You likely carry a lot of trauma and have a very disjointed view of what these concepts actually look like and that makes me really worried about you. At 18 you are literally still just a child - your brain will still be developing for 7 years or so and combined with childhood trauma you are very ripe for being manipulated by a 43 year old man.

          I know that when I was 18 I felt invincible but looking back I wish I listened to advice from older people.

          I mean just the fact that you shared your situation in an AMA tells me that you have your own doubts here.

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            16 hours ago

            Please don’t try to play therapist with me - I already have a professional I speak with weekly. Thank you. You’ve also been invalidating my feelings, which isn’t okay. I’m ending this conversation here, because this back-and-forth is pointless.

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              15 hours ago

              If you don’t want to be asked anything then you shouldn’t tell people to ask you anything. What are you here for then?

              Nothing I said was insensitive or unkind. Maybe if you read it again slower you will see it is exactly the opposite. Why would I waste my time typing anything if I didn’t care about you?