Two days ago, I did an AMA about my current life situation, and I really enjoyed it. I find these super fun for some reason, so I’m back with another one! Same request as last time: please, no judgment or unkind replies. Thank you! 🤍

  • iasmina2007@lemmy.worldOP
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    4
    arrow-down
    4
    ·
    16 hours ago

    This is a bit insensitive to say to someone who has experienced firsthand what it feels like to be the opposite of happy, content, and comfortable.

    • rabber@lemmy.ca
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      7
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      edit-2
      16 hours ago

      I went into your post history and saw you ran from home at 16. You likely carry a lot of trauma and have a very disjointed view of what these concepts actually look like and that makes me really worried about you. At 18 you are literally still just a child - your brain will still be developing for 7 years or so and combined with childhood trauma you are very ripe for being manipulated by a 43 year old man.

      I know that when I was 18 I felt invincible but looking back I wish I listened to advice from older people.

      I mean just the fact that you shared your situation in an AMA tells me that you have your own doubts here.

      • iasmina2007@lemmy.worldOP
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        arrow-down
        6
        ·
        16 hours ago

        Please don’t try to play therapist with me - I already have a professional I speak with weekly. Thank you. You’ve also been invalidating my feelings, which isn’t okay. I’m ending this conversation here, because this back-and-forth is pointless.

        • rabber@lemmy.ca
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          3
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          edit-2
          15 hours ago

          If you don’t want to be asked anything then you shouldn’t tell people to ask you anything. What are you here for then?

          Nothing I said was insensitive or unkind. Maybe if you read it again slower you will see it is exactly the opposite. Why would I waste my time typing anything if I didn’t care about you?