yea, admittedly I don’t see transfems wanting to hang around mens-only spaces the same way some trans men have trouble moving on from a butch lesbian identity, for example.
The closest I could think of is the way some transfems end up stuck in femboy or sissy cultures and they have trouble moving on from that even when they’re dysphoric and suffering for it, but I still think that’s a different experience.
That said, I don’t know if you’ve seen Will & Harper (incidentally I hated this film and thought it did a terrible job at both trans representation and modeling cis allyship), but the film is about Harper, a woman who transitioned in her 60s, and she goes on a roadtrip with her friend Will Ferrell.
Part of the film is about Harper attempting to recreate the experiences she had as a man traveling freely through small towns and going to sketchy bars, and that felt a bit like the analogous experience to the trans man who feels connection to women community. Harper longed for a kind of belonging to a particular space that was largely male-coded … not unlike the way Sylvia Plath, a cis woman, yearned for that nomadic adventurous freedom, “to be able to sleep in an open field, to travel west, to walk freely at night”, which was not accessible to her as a woman.
yea, admittedly I don’t see transfems wanting to hang around mens-only spaces the same way some trans men have trouble moving on from a butch lesbian identity, for example.
The closest I could think of is the way some transfems end up stuck in femboy or sissy cultures and they have trouble moving on from that even when they’re dysphoric and suffering for it, but I still think that’s a different experience.
That said, I don’t know if you’ve seen Will & Harper (incidentally I hated this film and thought it did a terrible job at both trans representation and modeling cis allyship), but the film is about Harper, a woman who transitioned in her 60s, and she goes on a roadtrip with her friend Will Ferrell.
Part of the film is about Harper attempting to recreate the experiences she had as a man traveling freely through small towns and going to sketchy bars, and that felt a bit like the analogous experience to the trans man who feels connection to women community. Harper longed for a kind of belonging to a particular space that was largely male-coded … not unlike the way Sylvia Plath, a cis woman, yearned for that nomadic adventurous freedom, “to be able to sleep in an open field, to travel west, to walk freely at night”, which was not accessible to her as a woman.