There is this girl I have been talking to for a time. I like her, and we also share some common ground. Recently she told how she is struggling very much with anxiety.

She’s worried people dislike her, worried about people only pretending to be her friend, people slowly losing interest. She is without exaggeration suicidal about it. More over I overheard her saying she hates people who are only interest in sex.

And here is the damned kicker, I am only interest in having sex with her. Normally when people talk about how they dislike people only interested in sex, I take that as my cue to leave. It’s totally fine they feel this way, but it also means we’re not compatible. However seeing how this girl is damn near suicidal about people pretending to like her, I’m not sure what to do.

If she’s not into one night stands that’s fine but that does mean I’m walking (I’m also not interested in any friendship). But I don’t want her to kill herself over it either.

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        I’m sorry if I’m not your kind off support at the moment. I’m sorry for being here. I should go for now 😞

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        Hey. I wrote this for real. These aren’t ChatGPT, the idea.

        Please forgive me. I wrote them and my AI formaliser helped me to be more passionate

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          I wrote them and my AI formaliser helped me to be more passionate

          Yeah, don’t do that. Your post reads very strange and artificial. A machine can’t deliver compassion.

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          and my AI formaliser helped me to be more passionate

          It actually very much did the opposite. Because now there is no actual passion behind it. None, whatsoever.

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            I am not good in delivering content with human emotion. What if I sent you content that you might not like. My bad English that people hate about it. I’m sorry. Seems like not every time I should use formaliser

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              This particular response shows more human emotion that your formaliser ever could (at least as of now).

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                I am unable to talk to people that mocked my English, make fun of my nationality, yes of course maybe not now people do this. But some day will

                Edit: there is a risk for that and the some people will never I know they held accountable

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                  Hey, I also use AI sometimes to help me say things I struggle with. I have some suggestions.

                  First, don’t ask it to rewrite what you are saying.

                  Second, ask it to identify things that are poorly worded, insensitive, have bad grammar, or misspellings.

                  Third, take it’s feedback and edit it yourself in your own words.

                  ChatGPT will often recommend verbiage that is emotionally disconnected, being either overly effusive or emphasizing irrelevant things.

                  ChatGPT will always suggest edits even if you write something perfectly. I’ve fed it’s own output back in and it gave itself plenty of critique because it’s not wired to say, “looks fine.” At least not until you’ve done some back and forth editing and then, even if the text is garbage it will decide the edited result is much better than the beginning.

                  It’s a handy tool to give you another set of eyes to look at something and to help you learn to write better on your own, but it cannot replace your own voice.

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                  Yes, people can be terrible and cruel. Most of us here have been mocked unfairly at some point in our lives, and there’s almost never accountability.

                  It is best to just ignore those people. In your head you can say to them “Okay, loser” and move on - if they are mean, you don’t want to know them anyway.

                  AI writes technically good English, but it’s very bad at writing with style - it’s basically only got one style and it’s very easy to pick out. If you want to use AI, you should use it to improve your English writing. You can paste your message, ask it for tips on what you should change, and rewrite it yourself; don’t copy paste what the AI writes.

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                    I am not asking for advise now I’m asking to bee understood. But seems like deleting account button is the best for me now. But I don’t want to be alone too much either