Then how do you properly give signals of liking the other person? Do I genuinely need to be blunt and just say I like her? Do I need to just straight up ask her out on a date? Do I need to flirt? As in use pick up lines or something?
P.s. please don’t tell me to just be myself.
How will her knowing I like her make her feel differently?? That doesn’t make sense to me. I’m still me, I am not doing anything differently, I am still as “attractive” as I was before telling her. So I don’t see how it matters.
Edit: Granted, eventually I’ll have to tell her but that’s after hanging out a couple of times and she’s shown signs of liking me back
How the fuck are you not getting signals from someone and still hoping to “attract” them?
No, see that’s where you give up. If you’re not getting signals from them then you leave it at that.
If you’re unable to make a connection enough to where you’re seen by a specific person as attractive, then you haven’t done enough to be noticed by that person.
I don’t see how simply stating you like someone will make you any more attractive. Hence, I don’t agree with the just shoot your shot approuch among other reasons. If you ask me, I would take that as a sign they’re not interested.
It means (as far as my interpretation goes) getting on friendly terms (not to be confused with becoming friends) and see if they show signs of liking you back.
Also, don’t be afraid to shoot your shot, OP.
If I may respond to this and no disrespect intended when I say this: I do not agree at all with this sentiment, to just shoot your shot. With all due respect, but if you’re not getting signals from her it will only serve to embarrass you.
What does that mean? (Unless you’re making a joke I’m not getting.)
Well in my case, there is this girl I like. I am not much of a flirt and even then I don’t really think flirting would work. So I’m just going to try to Attract rather then Chase in that sense.
Tinder and night club people.
Alright, I’m going with this.
Does she expect a serious answer?
That’s what I’m asking here. Do they generally expect a serious answer or not?
Well the thing is, like I said, if it were up to me I’d have no relationship and just sleep around. But I only ever seem to able to get relationships, never a fling. So I tell the women I date I don’t want anything too attached.
I told her I wasn’t looking for anything too attached. And she is okay with that. But as far as I’m concerned the relationship side of things is more her thing than it is mine.
Yeah that’s pretty much it. But I don’t mind pulling my weight in the relationship.
Well I told her I’m really hands off when it comes to relationships. And she is fine with that. I didn’t tell her I actually just use relationships for sex. (FYI, the reason I do that is because I can only seem to get relationships and never a fling. But I always tell them I am looking for something loose)
Then how do you give proper signals that you like someone?