Male Bi Vers NY. Mostly posting for the boys here on Lemmy because the girls already get enough attention.

I’ll do anything once, and most things twice ;-)

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Cake day: June 19th, 2023

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  • I don’t have the context but I think gaybros is meant to be a chill place without any of the dom/sub/alpha/fag/masc/fem stuff that pervades a lot of gay spaces online. Just a place for guys to be guys and share whatever is on their mind. I don’t know if that’s official (wtf does official even mean on Lemmy) but that’s what it means to me.






  • Hi bro, welcome!

    Consider signing up for a hookup app like Scruff. Be honest in your profile about where you are in your journey and what you’re looking for. You can see a lot of a guy before deciding if you like him or not, then meet for a drink and see if it makes sense to do more. In my experience, most guys don’t want to jump straight to intercourse, even if they’re horny af.

    Try not to be shy, start some conversations, and start learning what you are into. If you ever want to chat with another bro, message me any time!







  • mrsemi is right. Opposite-sex friendships exist in the hetero world and it’s fine, so you have a few options:

    • Think of your friend as just a friend. Even if he were gay/bi, there’s no guarantee that he’d be into you. You need to be able to have hot friends and be okay. In fact, he may have other hot friends he can introduce you to.
    • Tell him he’s hot! See how he reacts to the compliment. If he’s strutting around in just boxers and socks he’s clearly comfortable being around you. Does he know you’re gay? He might be an exhibitionist.
    • If it’s really distracting, let him know, but then you’re not going to get to enjoy the view anymore.
    • Has your friend ever told you they’re straight? I’m bi and pretty much everyone just assumes I’m straight and I’m mostly okay with that. Mostly.
    • You could slut it up and let him know that if he ever needs a release that you’d be happy to help. This is a difficult path to travel and it can easily cause a friendship to go sour.
    • Maybe you just need to be in a good mutually-loving relationship? I find that crushes are more manageable when my own needs are actually being met instead of letting the horni build up too much.