lol, the idea that I’ve said there is something wrong with being gay or being called gay is rich.

Yeah, it is. It reinforces the idea that there is something wrong with a gay homophobe being gay, rather than the problem being that they are a homophobe.

As a “joke” it treats being gay as derogatory. You’re welcome to make shitty homophobic jokes if you want to.

It’s not just the top/bottom part that’s problematic, it’s the entire post. The punchline is “Trump and Elon are gay for each other, isn’t that funny?” which centers the idea that it would be bad or wrong for them to be gay for each other, perpetuating the conservative stereotype that there’s something wrong with being gay.

calls out a post for being homophobia topped with an extra serving of homophobia

less upvotes than someone who thinks “haha gay” isn’t homophobic

😒

Thanks for trying.

Imagine your coworkers being able to vote on whether you can go to the bathroom 😒

I want to say started out more nonbinary and moved more towards masculinity, but it’s been years so I’m struggling to remember too.

It’s been a while since I read it, and I don’t think I’ve read the third book in the series yet, but I remember enjoying Lila Bowen’s “Wake of Vultures” and “Conspiracy of Ravens”. It probably needs similar trigger warnings iirc.