Many fall in the face of chaos, but not this one, not today

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  • Pencilnoob@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.worldClimate change do be like that
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    If the labor class wasn’t losing a class war to the capital holders you’d see 10x the support for saving the planet. But right now cost of living is so bad that folks are easily susceptible to propaganda that divides the labor class, and environmentalism is just one of the issues they’ve chosen to use as a wedge issue.

    It’s obvious how “do you want the cost of gas to go up?” is an effective propaganda message. Or “Do you want your taxes to go up and be used to wash sad animals while your own kids go hungry and get no Christmas presents?”

    That’s the real kicker here, a huge number of folks are barely scraping by and the propaganda lies and tells them the only way we can have environmentalism is by them suffering more. They’re already scared and desperate, sad animals is nothing compared to their own families suffering.


  • I don’t know how it got that way.

    I do know I’m supposed to investigate with binoculars from a pretty far distance, then

    • setup a hoseline in case the fuel ignites
    • only let rescuers get close for a few seconds to connect stabilizers like struts or junk yard dogs all around any direction it can fall
    • disconnect the batteries on all three
    • put on the parking break on all three
    • add chocks under the frame of the two with all 4 wheels on the ground

    After that I’d find the easiest way to extract the victims, probably by cutting off the roof with our electric cutters avoiding any undeployed airbags in the roof struts.

    Finally, we’d move the victims through where the windshield is, taking care to put neck / back collars on any with possible spinal injuries.

    And that’s the end of my armchair quarterbacking. Here’s hoping I do all of these steps the next time I have a rescue like this.





  • Just look for a job and make sure you’ve got a visa. Third world countries have a lot more “informal economy” that isn’t taxed or handled with paperwork so it’s possible sometimes to just find a job without paperwork or anything, but that won’t help you get a permanent visa.

    Ideally, you get a visa that allows work, show you’re working, and then the visa gets upgraded to a permanent resident visa. This varies a lot from country to country. If you’ve got a job, some countries are pretty happy to have you adding to their local economy and will extend you a visa. If you’ve got a remote job that might go even faster.

    Alternatively if you’re not skilled in any way, you apply to a super cheap college and apply for a student visa, that’ll buy you a few years while you’re getting skilled in something that country needs. Studying to become a doctor, lawyer, or STEM goes a long way. One of these probably is in demand there, figure out which one and take a crack at it. Hard, for sure, but a pretty solid way to build something long term. Of course if you don’t know the language that will be harder, but colleges generally have language classes too, so that could be the first classes you take.

    There’s also teaching English, it’s generally not too hard to find work as a tutor or English teacher, I saw the other day like there’s only one English teacher for every 500 open positions. So that’s a possibility too.

    Just generally try to participate in their economy. Try to make local friends and assimilate. Think about what first generation immigrants do: find a steady job or bust ass studying tech or medicine.








  • the spacecraft doesn’t immediately lose all the celestial relative velocity just by going into space, it’s still moving extremely fast:

    • with the sun and earth through the galaxy
    • with the Earth around the sun
    • and is still affected by Earth’s gravity, just now it’s able to counter Earth’s pull with a faster motion pulling it outward, so it balances out to appear weightless

    Just by going into orbit and counterbalancing the Earth’s gravity with rotational velocity doesn’t mean it’s not still moving extremely fast relative to the stars




  • You are grieving the loss of your old life. The freedom, the lack of responsibility. This is normal and healthy. Taking time to be sad and properly mourning is important.

    Maybe it helps to write about your travels, to fully remember the good and the bad of it.

    Take time to process that sadness and sit in it. Recognizing this will help you grieve. This could take months, maybe longer! Maybe you are also a bit resentful that you didn’t live in the moment more then, and that you tried to grow up too fast.

    Then you’ll be able to assess your life right now and decide if it’s the life you want or if you need a change. And being honest with your wife will go a long way, so she understands that you’re sad and mourning a life you used to live, even if you prefer this life.

    It’s normal to feel depressed while grieving.

    I’ve lived a lot of different lives, traveled and adventured with nothing a lot of different ways. Sometimes I look back at what I had and have strong regrets. A few years ago they got so strong I decided to blow my life up and go for a big backpacking trip with just enough work to sustain it indefinitely.

    It was really fun, but it was a new kind of hard. After about six months I realized I missed deep connections with friends. I missed staying in one place, in building a life with folks I cared about around me - a real community. I missed hosting backyard BBQ parties, playing games with folks, spending time with each other, supporting each other through life’s challenges.

    At the end of the day, the adventuring was great but it wasn’t enough, it was fun, but too souless to continue. The new friends every day, the new scenery, it was a grand adventure, but adventure isn’t enough. I need a deep community.

    So I picked a place to settle down and started building that life. Today I’ve got more neighbors as friends than I can possibly spend time with. I’m building deeper connections with people I care about. This was the missing piece.

    And sometimes I look out window and feel regrets. I see the moon and want to be out in the woods again. I want to be done with working so many hours to afford this life. But I remember being so lonely I could hear my heart knocking around in my chest, of meeting people every day I’d never get to see again. And I focus on being grateful for what I have. The gratitude goes a long way to making me feel better. I have possibly the best life I could, and part of that means trade-offs, of all the other lives that have to die so this one can live. I grieve those other lost lives, but then celebrate this one with things that make me happy and grateful.

    I hope my rambling helps. As you reflect I hope you find out what kind of life you want, and at least get a chance to feel the sadness and regret, and know it’s possible to regret and move forward. It’s possible to grieve an old life and still be grateful for the one you have.

    And maybe, yeah, at the end of that you need to blow it all up and go do something else. I wish you the best. Feel free to write me if you want to chat more about this




  • I use Kagi chat all the time for random shit:

    • scheming about food forest ideas
    • learning about Linux
    • helping me get inspired to write DnD campaigns
    • journaling about stressful shit and getting encouragement to relax and breathe through it
    • inspirations for cool projects to do

    it’s like a great resource to just see like an average of what people would say in that situation. I think of it like a faster more focused reddit thread full of good and bad ideas, and I sort through them