

As far as the Fediverse goes, I’ve mainly been a microblog user. I just got here (Lemmy, etc.). It’s wild to hear someone groaning about Federation not being perfectly seamless on Lemmy in comparison.
On Mastodon and the Misskey forks, if I’m interested in a thread, it’s time to open a browser tab to OP’s instance otherwise I’ll never see the entire conversation. I haven’t been on Lemmy that long but I’ve never once felt the need to open a post on the community’s home instance rather than my own.
I guess everybody’s got their line but this seems a little silly to me.
I don’t think I’m got now but I’ve been pretty attractive at times. Bullies will bully when and where they think they can get away with it. Especially where it gives them an advantage or a perceived advantage.
I’ve seen it at every level from fast food worker to upper levels of a large company.
Your hotness might affect how obvious a bully is but it can also make you a tantalizing target.
However, I suspect less skilled bullies are more likely to go for easier targets (people who are less conventionally attractive being a subset of folks a bully might find an easier target).