i want to transition so bad

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Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 24 hours ago

its been 5 years.

fuck.

I’ve wanted to transition for a 4th of my life now and I still don’t have enough control over my life to be me.

i would probably hate myself so much less if i had started hrt and transitioning when i wanted to.

rant over ill probably delete this post i just needed to vent im sorry

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The best time to start hrt is 5 years ago, the second best time to start is today

I can relate to the frustration of not being able to be you yet - but when you finally are able to, it’ll all be okay

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