Apparently it’s a trend that most men just receive wallets rather than buying them

  • just some guy@sh.itjust.works
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    7 months ago

    My last 3 wallets I bought for myself. I don’t think I’ve been gifted a wallet since my teens. I’d definitely advise against anyone I knew wanting to buy me a wallet, I’m very particular in the kind I like and chances are very high I wouldn’t use the gifted wallet, or I’d try to return it.

  • RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    When I was younger, yeah.

    I think wallets are for people nobody knows what to buy for. Like getting them a tie. No hobbies, no interests, no personal declarations of what they might like. Or people just don’t know them well enough to get anything other than some generic gift like a wallet.

  • jet@hackertalks.com
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    7 months ago

    Have a weird / old wallet and people will try to upgrade you.

    I had a gaffer tape wallet for many years… People couldn’t resist trying to replace it

    • confusedpuppy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      7 months ago

      I had a very different reaction to my duct tape wallet. I saw a slim, front pocket design online that was exactly what I was looking for in a wallet but I was unable to find one to buy. This was around the time that front pocket wallets just started to become a fad with the mininalism community so they were still quite uncommon.

      Used an old thin plastic board as a frame and duct taped the outside. One pocket for cards, one for money and a stretchy band to slip over to prevent things from accidentally falling out.

      Everyone loved it because it was so unique I guess. Kept adding more tape to repair it as it aged but eventually I retired it because the old glue was smearing all over my cards and money.

      I made many great memories with that wallet since it travelled with me around the world for a good number of years.

  • TriflingToad@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I bought mine

    Works well as a lanyard too, ADHD would be having me leave it everywhere if it weren’t strapped to my noggin

  • beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    7 months ago

    YOU CAN BUY YOURSELF ANYTHING YOU WANT ESPECIALLY A WALLET

    srry this just reads as “duh my bros is it geyy to git yerself a wallet” NO JUST BUY ONE

  • DUMBASS@leminal.space
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    7 months ago

    I keep getting wallets as gifts even though everyone knows I don’t use a wallet, I have a collection of wallets that will never feel the back of my ass.

  • kubica@fedia.io
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    7 months ago

    I don’t want gift wallets, there are like 0 chances I get what I want. Sometimes even for the ones I buy by myself.

    I don’t know, the pockets, the flatness… everything needs to fit right.

    • LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      7 months ago

      I really should get a new one. I think I bought one when I was 16, and another at 20. 15 years later it is falling apart but still have the same one. I wonder if that means I haven’t had a good friend or family member to buy me a wallet for 15 years. Sobering thought haha

  • kerrigan778@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I have only gotten one wallet as a gift ever, it was a family heirloom of sorts. All my other wallets I have used I have bought myself

  • NOPper@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    I bought a Ridge over a decade ago before they went all crazy political, and beyond some wear around the edges it’s held up great. Which it should, it’s fucking aluminum and titanium. The elastic cash band got stretched out pretty bad over time but I contacted em for a replacement last year and they just sent me one for free.

    I don’t think anyone’s ever bought me a wallet, which tracks with my wishes for everyday carry items honestly.

  • protokaiser@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    A friend made me a duct tape wallet in high school. My brother hated it, had won a contest, and spent some of.his winnings ona new wallet for me. It’s been close to 20 years.

    • jol@discuss.tchncs.de
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      7 months ago

      I made some amazing tape wallets back in the day. One of them was so well made it lasted more than 1 year.

      Funny enough I recently ended up finding a brand that makes paper “leather” slim wallets. Mine is lredy a few years old https://www.andersundkomisch.de/