• Semi-Hemi-Demigod@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    “Out of my league” also removes the other person’s agency. Maybe they really like people who look like you, despite what popular culture implies. By approaching someone with that attitude you’ve already made their decision for them, which isn’t fair.

    • r_ffer23@sh.itjust.works
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      1 year ago

      Duuude, that happened to me. I felt so stupid when she told me that back then, I only had to try and we would be together. :(