• Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
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    4 months ago

    But we do associate it with manhood. Until we move on from that mindset, it is an attack on someone’s manhood

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          4 months ago

          Societal change starts with the individual. If one person today has changed their views, it’s a step.

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            4 months ago

            I’m not doubting that, I’m just saying “we” as a society still associates the ability to get laid with manliness. And that’s not changing anytime soon

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      4 months ago

      And the way we move on from that is by each of us, individually, deciding that’s not an attack on manhood.

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        4 months ago

        Right, but to see the difference takes time. Some people are more hung up on the current view than others.