I get it, ok? Gen Z’s reputation isn’t great. Many people see us as lazy, unmotivated, and broken.

Can you seriously blame anyone who is a millenial or younger? Be honest with yourself here. If you really have to compare the war times to say that these generations had it easy, your metrics are messed up to begin with. That is a terrible bar.

Many people are heavily thinking about using services like MAID (Canada) when they get old because they know that they’ll never be able to retire, even if they work 50+ hours every week.

An entire generation is being written off, despite the fact that some of them are barely even in high school. Who was supposed to teach these kids how to act, and what to know? Who was supposed to guide them? You don’t just get life skills from a box of cheerios.

I’m heavily disappointed with a certain group of Millenials for following the exact same things that they’ve complained about for multiple years. You can’t complain about being judged as an entire generation while also complaining about another entire generation without being a hypocrite. Millions of people are usually not a single monolith, sorry to tell you. You are not an exception. No one is.

I do feel lucky in the sense that Millenials dispelled the “American dream” way before I had a chance to hope for it, although I do feel unlucky in the sense that that hope was never there to begin with. It’s felt grim since elementary school, and it’s just gotten worse. “Look at all of these bad problems that we’ll leave you to solve, well after it’s financially or environmentally feasible!” Yet, supposedly young people are dramatic for complaining about it. Hell, a lot of us can’t even legally vote yet. Do we have to follow the footsteps of France?

People actively and happily ignore science everywhere. In fact, many older adults have recently tried to LOWER education funding, yet these same people will still choose to blame the kids when they don’t magically know things.

There has been a massive uptick in mental health issues in young people. Instead of wondering “What caused that?”, many people are very eager to just dismiss it all as kids being dramatic. A handful of kids, maybe, but THIS many? You’re kidding yourself. You should keep thinking about the “why”. Why are so many kids too depressed to function at a basic level?

Let’s see here:

I’ll probably never be able to retire.

I’ll probably never be able to own a home.

People are still actively ignore environmental change, yet they whine about the price of foods going up. (Look at how the farmers are faring this year ffs)

People actively fight medical science.

People actively fight to control the lives of complete and total strangers.

I’m done pretending it’s all ok. I’m done acting complacent for random people to feel better about doing nothing for decades. I’m done dealing with it. Aside from my loved ones and my hobbies, what is there to look forwards to? I know people who have a freaking masters degree, yet they’re stuck working in fast food. University is NOT a magical “fix-all” solution. That poor dude is paying off that schooling with a minimum wage job. There are only so many high paying jobs.

We’re expected to care about everyone else’s struggle but our own. We’re expected to just deal with it in silence. All for the sake of older generation’s egos? I think the fuck not. I fuck up all the time. If you do, you should own up to it. I’ll always respect someone who owns their mistakes WAY more than someone who just pushes the blame down.

Don’t lie to us and tell us that life is better than it’s ever been. If you truly believe life is fully affordable on these wages, donate everything you have to charity and start from scratch. No degree, work experience, nothing. If it’s so easy, do it. Just do it. Please, start all over again if it’s so easy. Show us. Let’s see how long you last, especially if you’re single.

Be angry at me, idk. I am not alone in feeling like this, by a long shot. This collective anger will just keep growing. You can’t just brash people into being happy. That’s a great way to get ignored.

Again, this is aimed towards the people who say those things. Awesome people are in every generation.

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      To an extent. But income inequality and the housing crisis is manufactured by the older generations. In my city it’s impossible to rent a 3 bedroom house because ALL the houses are being horded by established home owners and rented on Airbnb. They have a VERY comfortable life and don’t need the extra income. It’s just greed. Meanwhile people under 45 basically have to get assistance from parents and also have good jobs in order to have any hope of buying a home. (A flat/condominium of course, no way we could afford a detached house).

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      7 months ago

      You’re commenting on a post in a community dedicated to venting frustration. What entitles you to tell someone they should get help with their mental health? OP’s feelings aren’t invalid just because you’ve generalized their thoughts into being “wrapped up in this generational wars”.

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        7 months ago

        God point, thanks. I was going to reply to several and hadn’t noticed

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      7 months ago

      My first reaction was seeing an analogy to an article in c/Science on dementia. The breakthrough was that neurons are not killed directly from protein clumps in the brain, but their stress reaction gets turned on and stays on until they die. The analogy was, imagine bright lights are on, and you can’t turn them off. …. seems like this is the same. Yeah, the world sucks in many ways. (It’s also much better in others but we’ll ignore that for now. ) The point is internet culture and always on electronics keep sending a flood of stressful news, information, and falsehoods …… your stress reaction gets turned on and you can’t turn it off. You’re under the glare of a spotlight that you can’t turn off. There’s no peace or calm, you can’t make it stop.

      How can we make it stop? Can we focus on moderating our constant exposure (wearing shades and sunblock)? Do we have to give it up? Can we redirect it somehow?