• LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      4
      ·
      8 months ago

      well the closest I ever got to that was having an all-consuming hobby of attending aerobics classes and there were no men anywhere and I was so sexually frustrated. Had no idea how to meet men cuz all I wanted to do is go to a aerobics classes.

      LPT for men: If you want to meet tons of thirsty women, go to aerobics classes.

            • LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              5
              arrow-down
              2
              ·
              edit-2
              8 months ago

              I am a woman.

              You’re probably a creep if that is the message you are getting back from everyone.

              Believe it or not, not all men are creepy.

                • LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.world
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  2
                  ·
                  edit-2
                  8 months ago

                  Well now that you put it that way, let me clarify. join an aerobics class because it’s fun and it feels good, not for the sole objective of meeting ladies. Meeting ladies might be a secondary accidental benefit after having fun & being healthy in aerobics classes. This is how to meet ladies without being a creep.

                  example: for at least two years there was one man in our aerobics class, he was very good at it and he was up front by the mirror every time, he had his favorite spot, he was a normal guy, he did not flirt with the ladies, he did not talk to anyone other than normal banter that everyone has with everyone else. After 2 years I approached him because he was the only man I knew and I needed help with lifting something heavy. That’s the only time I ever talked to him. There was nothing creepy about him or anything creepy about the situation.

                  I wasn’t attracted to him, but I’m telling you if there were more men in that class or in any of the classes I go to, they could totally score.

    • Hadriscus@lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      4
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      edit-2
      8 months ago

      Single-sex schools still exist ? where ? I know a few people who went to those but they’re in their 70s now