• ManyJazz@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      10 months ago

      Same thing, probably even worse. Any other day than bday or celebratory days or holidays is a better moment to contact.

      I did move abroad tho, and phone calls (or videochat) he has never been fond of. But we do write long intimate emails every (other) month/quarter.

      He just hates getting all the nonsense on his bday 😋 I was the bad friend for not listening for 30 years. Not casually wishing him a happy day feels weird. Gonna text him soon, guess we just pick up where we left.