I think… I get it. You’re saying that transcendental dudeism can only be achieved when the dude abides. But the intolerant dude cannot abide in any dudes heart, lest they stray from dudes path. Thus the true dude must respect absence of dudeness in some as much as it’s bounty in others with the quiet heart of a stoic.

Only then will you realize that it is not the dude that abides, but yourself.