make sure you ask your trans/non binary friends what they do and don’t like to be called 😊 it can mean a lot, if your unaware

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      And yet they never once called you dude. You were just so happy and excited to shit on someone, that you failed to have any compassion and understand what they were actually saying.

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        I get what they’re saying, they’re one of those fuckers who thinks that trans people are just narcissistic snowflakes who love singing about rimjobs in public and looking for reasons to get offended. I refuse to show compassion towards people who misrepresent me and my people and tell us to be quiet and compliant for their sake.

        I know they didn’t call me specifically dude, and I don’t care. They would if I were their friend and asked them not to they still would, that’s the whole fucking issue here. Just don’t call people shit they don’t want to be called, it’s a matter of basic fucking respect and trans people deserve that just like anyone else

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          Basic respect would be for you to actually read what they said. At no point did they ever say you, or your community did that. Pretty sure they actually said they didn’t care what community you were, just that singing about rimjobs and making a scene is annoying.

          In reality, all you’re doing is being one of those people who is an asshole to anyone that doesn’t drop to their feet for you…

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            Also since you like playing dumb, here’s them saying exactly what I said they said “Like, sweetie you think this is the first time I’ve seen a man in a skirt (this particular person identifies as a man for the purpose of this comment), or someone with green hair? You’re fucking being annoying in public that’s why we’re mad. None of my business who you fuck I’m trying to eat lunch and you’re singing a song about rimjobs.”

            Idk why I bothered with this tbh, you’re still gonna act like trans people are assholes for wanting to be respected, but just in the off chance I’m wrong there you go

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            Yea, it is annoying, it’s also a made up issue. They just want an excuse to shit on trans people for wanting basic respect. Nobody’s fucking in the middle of their living room, and nobody’s asking for them to grovel, we literally just want basic fucking respect and you and them would rather be unflinchingly shitty and argue online than just admit that trans people deserve respect

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      Mustard’s point was that they didn’t want someone blowing up on them because they used the wrong word.

      I doubt they have any problem with using a person’s requested pronouns, just that it’s possible to make mistakes and they’d rather be politely corrected.